Child Inclusive Mediation

Child Inclusive Mediation in Devon and Cornwall

Child Inclusive Mediation Specialists in Devon and Cornwall

At Child Inclusive Mediation, we are family mediation specialists who put children first in a separation or divorce.

Our approachable and professional mediators will guide you through the separation process, helping you find a resolution before going to court.

We offer MIAMs (Mediation Information and Assessment Meetings) as a starting point to ensure the best possible outcome for you and your family.

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Why Mediation?

Reduced Conflict and Lower Legal Costs

Informed Decision Making

Child Inclusive Mediation helps parents communicate more effectively by creating a respectful space where they can understand each other’s perspectives and prioritise their children's needs during the separation process.

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Informed Decision Making

Reduced Conflict and Lower Legal Costs

Informed Decision Making

By including children in the process, parents gain valuable insights into their children's emotional needs, enabling them to make decisions that are in the best interests of everyone involved.

MIAMs

Reduced Conflict and Lower Legal Costs

The mediation process helps to minimise conflict by fostering cooperation and offering a neutral environment, making it easier for parents to navigate difficult conversations and reach mutually beneficial agreements.

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Why Choose Child Inclusive Mediation?

Child Inclusive Mediation ensures that decisions made during the family transition are balanced, informed, and compassionate. It fosters understanding and healing by acknowledging the unique emotional needs of both parents and children. Whether you are navigating a separation, divorce, or other family restructuring, this approach offers an invaluable opportunity to move forward in a way that considers every family member’s wellbeing.

How It Works

During Child Inclusive Mediation, a neutral, trained mediator facilitates conversations between parents and, where appropriate, the children. The process often involves:

Initial Meetings: Parents meet separately with the mediator to discuss their goals and concerns, ensuring that the children’s involvement is in their best interest.
Parental Session: After speaking with the children, the mediator shares insights with the parents, helping them make informed decisions that are in the children’s best interests.
Child Consultation: If appropriate, children are invited to speak with the mediator in a separate, confidential session where they can express their feelings about the situation.
Ongoing Support: Mediators offer continued support to ensure that all parties understand the emotional needs of the children and that decisions are implemented in a way that maintains family stability.

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Benefits for Children from Child Inclusive Mediation

A Safe Space to Express Feelings: Children often feel powerless during a separation or divorce. Child inclusive mediation gives them a safe and supportive space to voice their feelings without the burden of making decisions.
Reduced Confusion and Anxiety: Knowing that their thoughts and concerns are being taken into account can reduce a child's confusion and anxiety about the changes happening in their family.
A Sense of Validation: When children are included in the process, they feel heard and respected, which can help in fostering their emotional resilience during difficult transitions.
Increased Emotional Wellbeing: When children see that their parents are actively trying to understand their emotional needs, it can reduce the emotional strain and support their mental health during the separation process.
Family Harmony: By ensuring that all members of the family are part of the conversation, child inclusive mediation helps create more harmonious and mutually supportive family relationships post-separation.

Frequently Asked Questions

Please reach us at enquiries@childinclusivemediation.co.uk if you cannot find an answer to your question.

What is mediation, and how can it help with childcare and financial arrangements?

Mediation is a structured process where a neutral mediator helps separating couples resolve disputes, such as childcare arrangements and financial settlements. It promotes open communication and avoids court proceedings, saving time and money. Mediation ensures that both parties have a say in reaching fair and practical agreements.

Is mediation legally binding for childcare and financial agreements?

Mediation outcomes are not automatically legally binding. However, agreements can be formalised into a legally binding consent order through the court. Mediators can guide you on the process to ensure childcare and financial arrangements are enforceable.

How much does mediation cost for resolving childcare and financial disputes?

Mediation costs vary but start from £120 per hour per person. Costs are often lower than court fees. Legal Aid may cover mediation for those eligible, including the initial Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting (MIAM).

What happens if mediation fails for childcare or financial arrangements?

If mediation fails, you may need to apply to the court for a child arrangements order or financial order. Mediation is a required step before court, unless exempt, and the mediator will provide a signed MIAM form to proceed legally.

Can children be involved in the mediation process?

Yes, children can participate in mediation if both parents agree, and the mediator deems it appropriate. Child-inclusive mediation ensures children’s views are considered in the decision-making process, helping create arrangements that meet their needs.

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